Dr Eleanor Nwadinobi horrified members with her description of the
rites inflicted upon widows in her country, of which details are
outlined in the Minutes of our meeting.
Dr Nwadinobi is part Nigerian and part Jamaican, born and
educated in Britain and a OP.
She is President of the Widows Development Association
(Willa) and President-elect of the Medical Women's Association of
Nigeria.
Her talk described the violence against a group of women – widows
– that occurs in South-east Nigeria.
Her organisation, Willa, was formed to look after their
welfare. She
explained that a young girl has no status until she is married and
as soon as her husband dies she loses status: she is made to sit
on the floor or on a straw mat to show that she is now
'dethroned'. When her
husband dies she has no right to look nice, must wear drab
clothing and not bathe.
An unmarried girl has no succession rights to her father's
property.
If she is married her father's property eventually goes to
her husband. Widows
have no succession rights to their husband's property because they
are chattels to be inherited along with land and household
property by the deceased husband's brother.
A childless widow is often asked to leave the home.
A rural, uneducated woman who cannot earn money and be
economically independent cannot look after her children, which
leads to real suffering.
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Dr Nwadinobi has been working against these rites for many years,
stressing the need to emphasise women's human rights.
Changes needed were:
C - change in attitude,
H - heightened awareness,
A - advocacy,
N - networking,
G - gender training in schools,
E - enforce charters & conventions.
A Bill was passed on 8 March 2001 and signed into law in June
2001. The male
legislators in the Nigerian House of Assembly insisted upon the
inclusion of 'widowers' as well as 'widows' in the wording, despite
the fact that widowers are treated with great sympathy and expected
to remarry very quickly.
A seminar 'Changing Women's Lives' sponsored by the US
Bureau of Educational and Cultural Affairs where Dr Nwadinobi was
one of the facilitators was held to inform the traditional rulers in
February 2002. Changes
are slow but positive.
Since the Bill was passed the State Department has not been able to
put it into print. As a result, Willa, with the help of the Canada Fund for
Local Initiatives, has printed a summary of the Bill. It is being used as an advocacy tool for groups, including
schools and churches. |